Note: this article is part of my memoir, Broke, Single, Crazy and Old. Podcast version here. Relating to “bad sex,” another interesting fact. Unbeknownst to me at the time, a mere 20-minute drive from where I lived in Berkeley, through the Caldecott tunnel into a town called Lafayette, was one of the most advanced man/woman education and […]
The Man/Woman Game
A lecture on sexual polarity: the great tragic flaw of masculine psychology
[Note: this article is part of my memoir, Broke, Single, Crazy and Old. It is also available as a podcast here, although the podcast doesn’t include the final section The masculine and feminine evolutionary purposes] “Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his […]
What Women Want: Towards a New Psychology of Love, Sex and Gender Relations
[Note: this article is also available as a pocast here] “Men and women have searched for each other for generations and always missed one another” – Dieter Duhm Contents Preamble Asbstract Re-Inventing Feminism Sexual Polarity according to David Deida Sexual Polarity for Women Sexual Polarity for Men How to Find Out More Preamble (July 2019) […]
I have a Dream: the social-political context of love and sex
(Listen to the podcast version of this article here) Note: this article is part of my memoir, Broke, Single, Crazy and Old. I present it here as an addendum to the What Women Want article, as it goes more deeply into the political theory or ideology that underlies much of my work around sexuality. The […]
